Friday, December 7, 2007

Deja-Vu

A friend of mine suggested y i m writing on all the common topics like whats goin in office and the spiritual tough one, though the poem was a sweet suprise and least expected from a person like me. Y i dnt post somthng different was the issue....so lemme giv it a try.. lemme share som experience... Ths blog is nt gonna share ne thng new or nt intended to suggest or prove ne point..if u feel wat rubbish is this.. check wat u r reading
"DEJA-VU"
I got internet connection to my place(home) 4 yrs back, nothing new about it... most of u had..but i m here sharing the experience, the sweet memories, the night outs,the full tp sessions, the leg pulling sessions and somtimes the emotional breakdowns too.. leave one or two instances apart, till today it has helped me alot improving my personality, social networking and a lot.... :)
When I was a novice to messenger as well as to explorer and my sis explained me hw to use yahoo, i was wndering y shud i use it and waste my time.. I alws used to b a book worm n love reading a novel or rather watch discovery n som times cartoons..
i was like ok let me try ths also...I ddnt had a chat friend so she spared a friend for me n thn I was taught hw to use a chat room...n thn begun a revolution in my life.... of many realisations.. hw the cyber world behaves .. hw ur chat frnds can help n at time broke u n shatter u...
but one thing i alws wondered,,, whnever i sent a request to a female.. it was alws rejected... but if it was a male friend.. i never need to send a request it alws com frsthand...so i got fed up quite early vth this chat room culture.... n tht was seriously a hell waste of time too.
but ofcourse one thng i shud accept i got many good friends and and a lot of contacts....got one of my best friends today in a chat room only...he turned out the best mentor i cud ever had.
I nver had those interests in movies n talks and was alws considered a boorish creature whn it came to b part of a gang of gals(was never involved in galish talks of cloths n accessories or movies n actors or crushes n fantasies...) my sole aim was my career n was alws attracted towards those seeking the same...My interest in MBA and involvement in sports and politics made me cover a wide range of personality types.. n was able to make friends quite easily vthout ne cooking up.
so my list of friends used to cover guys n gals of simillar interests prefareble MBAs.. I was alws cautionary in choosing those on my list...today also, my list is maintained the same it used to be 2-3 yrs bak..only difference is tht the marital status of most of the friends hav changed.. but the brains and the heart still at the same frequency and same wavelengths..
even today m incashing the interst on the principal i once invested in those friends. Learnt a lot....practicality, diplomacy and most imp the art of dealing with others...Alws speak wat others like... evn if it is a lie....m still a beginner on this front because of my short temper and attitude,, but yeah m learning. the other thng i learnt was the art of flirtn... ;) thnks to u my buddy ;)
i wnder hw i learnt it but ya i learnt it somhow but still i dnt hav much time and taste for it...
not much changed evn after being a part of corporate culture except blogging as well as few gain of pounds :)
m still nt an MBA so my career is not at stagnation nw ,alot more to see and learn... to discover what is in the store for me....
planning to get married soon so will enter into a new world of relations ,compromises and ????? hav yet to discover.